September 29, 2020

Fun, Gift Guides

2020 Holiday Gift Guide

September 29, 2020

Fun, Gift Guides

Well! Here we are. In the many years I’ve been doing this, I can’t say I ever thought I’d be writing a list of gift ideas for a pandemic. But you know, I think we can still make the most of this season. After all, so much of it is about being cozy at home, and being thoughtful and loving toward others. Those are gifts themselves.

Previous gift guides still have lots of good gift ideas, so don't miss them: 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017, 2018, 2019, Gift Ideas for Rowers, Holiday Decor Gift Guide, Easy Engrossing Reads for a Pandemic.

I know that many people won’t be celebrating this year, and for those that do, the holidays might look quite different. I’ve focused on gift ideas in a range of price points that keep everyone safe, comfortable, and indulged. I’m also including small, diverse businesses while acknowledging that large retailers are accessible for most everyone. We’ve got a real mix so take the idea and shop where you want. Some affiliate links used, but none of these items are sponsored. Don’t forget to sign up for Ebates/Rakuten so you can get cash back on your purchases.

I work all year long to gather gift ideas for everyone on your list. It’s a labor of love, but it’s still labor. If you want to buy me a coffee or support this work you can do so here. I’ll give half of whatever comes through that link to some of the organizations outlined below. If you shop through my Amazon affiliate link, that helps too.

This is by far the biggest guide I’ve ever done. I hope it’s a welcome distraction and you find something for everyone on your list.

Gift Guide 2020

1. Make a gift to a local food bank on behalf of your giftee. It could be their local organization, yours, one in a place that’s meaningful to you both, or one in an area hard hit by COVID or fires, or in particular need. Feeding America will help you find a food bank and World Central Kitchen also feeds people in crisis while No Kid Hungry helps starving American children. So many are suffering this year and won’t have a holiday at all. Gifts of cash allow food banks to buy essentials and plan ahead.

2. Beautiful baby headbands in gorgeous fabrics from a small Black-owned Etsy shop. They make gorgeous, functional pieces in stunning fabrics. Check out the rompers! The shop owner is in the UK so be sure to factor that in when planning your purchase.

3. A soothing fidget cube, because 2020. 4500 reviews, 4.5 stars. This one keeps me focused on Zoom calls.

4. A beautiful planter for their a new succulent hobby. The Jen Spring Ceramics Etsy shop has so much gorgeous stuff. Bowls, planters, mugs and more with interesting and unique designs.

5. I used to tease my husband for always having a baby Swiss Army knife on him, until he put one in my stocking. Now I can’t live without it. I mostly use it for the bottle opener, scissors, and toothpick. Lots of different models with different features so see what will suit your giftee best.

6. A big ole pack of fine-tipped colorful pens. 20,000 reviews, 4.5 stars.

7. A Barnacle speaker. Sand-proof, dust-proof, waterproof, Bluetooth, excellent sound, delightful name. A friend has one and recommends it. Suction-cups to their kayak, paddle board, canoe, or homemade raft fashioned from palm logs. They can listen to Taylor Swift’s new album as they paddle away from the apocalypse.

8. Not going anywhere for a while? Pass the time looking through this book that is stunning on a coffee table. Where to Go When: Unforgettable Trips for Every Month tells you the best times of year to visit the world’s extraordinary places so you can plan your first post-pandemic trip.

9. I got my husband this El Yucateco hot sauce sampler last year and he loved it. There’s a habanero variety pack too.

10. An organic passion vine seedling. Eventually it could be the passion fruit producing trellis climber of their dreams. I want one.

11. Q-bitz. I don’t quite understand what this is other than a family game that is exceedingly well reviewed, keeps winning awards, and which one reviewer described as “The visual equivalent of crack cocaine.”

12. Matching doll and child robes, can you EVEN. I would have thrown myself into the SEA for this during my American Girl doll phase. Comes in various colors and prints for about $30 and is personally recommended by a friend.

13. And while you’re at it, cozy flannel robes for the adults. Also this sweatshirt robe!

14. Online cooking classes for kids and adults from The Pantry in Seattle. Recommended by a friend who made these biscuits with her kids.

15. Smartphone camera lens kit. Take amateur photography to the next level with the incredibly powerful camera they already have in their pocket. Comes with telephoto, macro, and wide-angle lenses to turn their smart phone into a DSLR (almost). Compact carrying case and tripod included, great reviews, $30.

16. Keep the stocking stuffing practical with these weirdly modern yet completely normal toothbrushes? My husband said they make him feel like he’s brushing his teeth with a spaceship.

17. Smith Tea. A friend sent some as a gift at the start of the pandemic and as they say, the first hit is free. For those keeping track, that’s two drug references more than I usually make in a Gift Guide and we’ve barely begun. Anyway, I have since placed several orders and given it as gifts. Poke around their site and check out the black, green, and herbal tea samplers.

18. If you go with the loose leaf, consider this tea scoop that can also be used for coffee and the best cocoa.

19. Complete the gift with this gorgeous handmade mug made in Asheville, NC by East Fork Pottery. Be sure to check out their whole collection, it’s so much more than just pottery. (Note that they have a kind of wild ordering system where they release things in batches.)

20. Kids’ batting tee. $15, 700 stars, 4.5 stars. Operation Keep! The! Kids! Busy! There’s also a classic tee-ball set for littles.

21. Every year I pepper the gift guide with ornaments. This year I will also be liberally peppering it with face masks. SewSporty is a small local (to me) company that makes one of my favorite masks. One of the loops is sewn on so it always stays around my neck and I never have to worry about losing it while out kayaking or walking. Great for everyone on your list and especially the sporty, forgetful, and busy people. If you follow me on Instagram you’ve definitely seen me in their rowing print mask!

22. Ornaments! This is a great year to get an ornament commemorating a trip you took before COVID hit, a food you’ve gotten into while spending all this time at home, or a new hobby. Perhaps a personalized puzzle ornament?

23. Uhh apparently puzzle goliath Ravensburger also makes puzzle ball ornaments? Sign me up, Santa.

24. I will also be telling you what to read! For the mystery lover on your list, one of my favorite new-to-me series is Louise Penny’s Inspector Gamache murder mysteries. They’ve been around a while and she released the 15th one in the series this year so if your giftee likes them they’ll truly be the gift that keeps on giving. You can shop your local store, their local store, or bookshop.org to support small businesses.

25. Also for the readers on your list, this Support Your Local Library t-shirt. I got it for my birthday and I love it. BoredWalk has lots of literary-themed goodies and my local library has a shop that sells them, plus lots of other cute literary stuff.

26. I’m an avid reader and my husband is a leatherworker, so we recently collaborated on a book mark! I was sick of losing bookmarks and using receipts and old mail to mark my spot. This is thick enough to keep track of and slim enough that it won't break the spine of your favorite novel. The extra long hand-tied tassel means it won't get lost or slide out, and falls beautifully over the back of the book ensuring it won't be in the way either. Hand-burnished edges, hand-tied custom tassel, solid brass eyelet for durability. I hope you love it as much as I do!

27. This beautiful kitchen herb wreath for the cook in your life. From a California farm wreath (?) company. Who knew! There’s always the classic Bay Leaf Wreath from Williams-Sonoma too.

28. This multi tool is the size of a credit card and would be a great stocking stuffer. Bottle opener, can opener, screw driver, wrenches, knife edge, saw blade, keychain hole to attach to gear. $5.

29. 64 oz. of bubbles. Stuff those stockings! Keep those kids busy! Who cares that it’s snowing! $6, several colors. Maybe also check out this giant bubble maker kit.

30. Happy challah days socks. Or this 3-pack including Knish Me, I’m Jewish socks.

31. How absolutely gorgeous are these earrings? It’s impossible to choose a favorite from this artist. All original, unique, handmade designs inspired by her home of Jalisco, Mexico. She has stunning necklaces and wall hangings, too.

32. Blue light blocking glasses. Everyone is on screens all the time. Protect those peepers. A solid stocking stuffer. 25,000 reviews, 4.5 stars. Don’t forget the kids’ glasses too.

33. Glasses cleaner and cleaning cloth. I found one of these sets in my stocking last year and it’s fantastic for my regular glasses, sunglasses, and blue light blocking glasses. It’s a 2-pack so you can split them up and distribute.

34. Last year I got my husband this union suit and I have never seen him more excited about a gift. Trapdoor jammies. A onesie for adults! He wore it all winter. Have I mentioned we live in a temperate climate by the beach? Get one for everybody on your list. There’s this one for under $30 too.

35. Eco-friendly soap and cleaning products for the eco elf on your list. We’re all washing our hands lots and some friends gave my husband and I this handsoap starter kit. Just fill the reusable glass jar with water, unwrap a tablet, and drop it in. No plastic, little waste, refills only $2. And if they don’t want to keep buying tablets, well, they have a new soap dispenser.

36. Then soothe those freshly washed paws with Kiehl’s Hand Salve. I got this as a gift and I am frankly disappointed that I like it so much. An upgrade to an every day item is one of my favorite things to give. A little luxury for your giftee in isolation. Of course, you can always go for my every day favorite too.

37. Speaking of hands, an Olive and June mani kit. Multiple kit options, choose different polish shades. Several of my friends have become Olive & June obsessed the last few months. They have free online mani classes and I must admit I have been swayed by endless pics of my friends’ cute hands. Target started carrying their stuff too, including the coveted cuticle oil pen and some fun nail stickers and other tools which would make great stocking stuffers.

38. Tennis balls. They bounce. They’re brightly colored. Dogs and children love them. They’re $3 a can and will fill a stocking. There are pink ones also.

39. Minecraft UNO. $6, great gift or stocking stuffer. Classic Uno is always a great bet and there’s Uno Flip too. Stuff those stockings, keep everyone busy.

40. Sundae kit. You might not be able to have an ice cream party, but you can send ‘em one. 10 x 1-pound bags of different toppings. Just add ice cream. And maybe some gourmet hot fudge and caramel too.

41. Go all out and include Jenis’ famous ice creams. Check back often for new seasonal flavors. And if you’re going to send them to a lot of people, contact their gift concierge.

42. Don’t forget the world’s best ice cream scoop. 1400 reviews, 4.5 stars, I love mine.

43. A commemorative 2020 ornament.

44. Gorgeous, 100% recycled/post-consumer waste Decomposition notebooks.

45. Everybody vs. Injustice tee from a Black-owned Etsy shop.

46. I don’t know about you but I’ve personally never wished more for a hammock than I have the past seven months. This camping hammock is great for a backyard, campsite, cabin, canoe trip, or a woodsy place of their choosing where they can scream and scream and no one can hear them, which sounds both like a horror movie and something we all wish we could do. Lots of colors, 140 reviews, 4.5 stars, under $20.

47. And for the adventurers and nature lovers on your list, my friend Kerri Anne makes hand-drawn art for wild places and wild hearts in her Etsy shop, Little Orange Tent. I particularly like this alpine wildflower sticker bundle and the paperless gift tags/mini cards made from recycled t-shirts.

48. Depending on how your giftee is handling things/their comfort level, a gift card to their favorite local restaurant or coffee shop so they can get takeout, etc.. Support small businesses and keep everyone fed.

49. The Babysitters’ Club graphic novels. If you’re my age these are pure nostalgia, and everyone I know who has tweens says their kids rave about them. The classics, reimagined. I read one and I thought they were really well done.

50. Ummmm okay there is also a retro tin box set.

51. Knack offers custom care packages. Let them do the thinking and select from a wide variety of themed care packages like calm spa, French seaside, every day joy, healthy snacks, and so much more—or build your own on their site and ship directly to your giftee. You can also shop by ethos for cool items that are handmade, made in the USA, sustainable, etc. Such a cool site for gifts.

52. With restaurant dining being what it is, it’s a great time for picnics and outdoor dining at a distance with friends. They can keep a bottle of wine cold in a Corkcicle canteen. I have one and its great. 25 oz. size holds a full bottle of wine. They come in tons of colors and you could get them matching insulated tumblers too.

53. I also love these canned cocktails from You & Yours, a local woman-owned destination distillery in downtown San Diego. They have a classic cocktails with a twist, like a cranberry vodka soda, blood orange gin and tonic, and vodka mules. Their classic gin and tonic is one of my favorites.

54. Complete the picnic with a buffalo check waterproof picnic blanket. Or this picnic blanket for $25 that’s also waterproof with a carrying case. Great reviews.

55. Speaking of blankets, I had this blanket on the Gift Guide last year and you just really need it. I mean, if you’re not getting cozy at home what are you even doing with your life. No, really, it’s winter and a pandemic literally what are you doing? Please tell me, I want to know what options there are that I don’t know about.

56. That blanket is pricey, though. This blanket is also a very excellent blanket and also not new to the gift guide. A zillion colors, soft as h*ck, 1700 reviews, 5 stars.

57. A beautiful handmade hummingbird ornament. You can customize the colors and glazes and the shop has tons of other ornaments and beautiful pottery.

58. Ramen Hero. Your giftee will need freezer space and the ability to boil water. But as long as they have both, the ramen lover on your list can can have delicious ramen “delivery” on demand—no contact—at home whenever they want. Scroll down the product page for mouthwatering options or opt for a gift card.

59. Now more than ever: festive handsoap. This one will transport you to a frosty North Pole forest where you can continue screaming (in your head) for as many Happy Birthdays as you need. I’d normally suggest it as a hostess gift but this year, buy it for yourself, for a friend, for a stocking, or to stick in a care package.

60. Ada Twist, Scientist. Can’t say it better than the description: “Inspired by real-life makers Ada Lovelace and Marie Curie, this beloved #1 bestseller champions STEM, girl power and women scientists in a rollicking celebration of curiosity, the power perseverance, and the importance of asking “Why?” I know lots of people whose kids love this book. 1,700 reviews, 5 stars. Also check out Iggy Peck, Architect and Sofia Valdez, Future Prez in the same series.

61. How gorgeous are these Galaxy Bonbons? Marshmallow Nutella, dark chocolate mint cookie, and wild strawberry caramel brie are just a few in this set of hand-painted chocolates. Phillip Ashley Rix is a Black, self-taught, luxury chocolatier doing stunning work and you should check out the rest of his store immediately.

62. Ladysmyth makes chic masks in LA. They have masks for kids too, as well as filters. I love the cherry and mini black rose prints.

63. The only thing I know about Animal Crossing is that in the pandemic a lot of people are playing Animal Crossing. Probably they want the official Animal Crossing Companion Guide and some Animal Crossing keychains for the keys and backpacks they no longer use and such. There are also shirts?

64. Your local diaper bank or Help a Mother Out. Because every baby deserves clean diapers, and 1 in 3 American families experiences diaper need. Babies without clean diapers are exposed to more potential health risks & less likely accepted to daycares, leaving parents unable to attend work.

65. Maldon is the gold standard of sea salt. You can get an half-pound box for $8 OR YOU CAN GET A 3-POUND BUCKET FOR $25. Delightful, delicious, AND a bargain! A dream for the chefs, bakers, and cooks on your list. The smoked salt is also great.

66. Trevor Project ornament. Or mug. You could also pair it with a Trevor Project donation.

67. We Welcome All doormat. Because as long as there are places where people don’t feel welcome for who they are, it never hurts to tell them they’re welcome with you. Etsy has some too.

68. For the coffee lover on your list, Bean Box offers tons of options from monthly deliveries to gift boxes. You can specify their preferences for light or dark roast, etc. I got it for my brother last year and he thought it was well done. I told him he had to give me an honest opinion for the Gift Guide under penalty of noogies, and I administer a mean noogie.

69. A beautiful journal. This makes me itch to write by hand. Does your giftee regularly sketch, journal, make lists, jot ideas down, or are they getting extra reflective or creative in isolation? The pages are blank and the possibilities are endless.

70. A cooler backpack. Well reviewed. Depending on your budget, Yeti makes one too.

71. Maybe the person who wants that cooler backpack also wants these camping lanterns that have 5 stars with 3,500 reviews. Good for emergencies, backyard camping, living room camping, or anything outdoors.

72. A classic Slinky is fun for kids of all ages. Why are they so mesmerizing? I can still hear the sound of them going down the stairs at my grandparents’ house. Grab a 3-pack, stuff those stockings, and Keep Those Kids Busy racing slinkies! (What is the plural of Slinky?) Made in America.

73. Hayleycakes and Cookies. I loooove a frosted sugar cookie. They are my Achilles heel. If you dangled one on a stick I would follow you anywhere. Some of my favorites are from Hayleycakes. If you follow me on Instagram you’ve probably seen me share their very soothing decorating videos. Their cookies are just as delicious as they are fun and beautifully made, and you’ll find something for every interest. If you’re in the Austin area, check out their delivery menu. Small business, tons of delightful holiday options and even a Cookie of the Month Club!

74. You could order a dozen cookies in a design of your choice and find a corresponding ornament. Bundle up one of each together and give to friends and family. How gorgeous are these cactus ornaments?

75. Maybe they’ve been missing their favorite Asian food but love to cook or are curious enough to learn? Get them a wok and a Thai cookbook or something to help them connect with whatever it is they’re missing in These Weird Times. Sushi making kits, the Jamba Juice recipe book, the possibilities are endless!

76. Related: reusable bubble tea straws, tapioca pearls, and Thai tea mix. I really really love nuts.com. They have EVERYTHING. From snacks and trail mix to dried nuts and fruits to candy and pantry staples like beans and grains and cool stuff like dehydrated cream to keep on hand for cooking, I cannot get enough.

77. In fact, their spice drops are the best I’ve ever had and you should trust me because I have been an 80-year-old woman since I was 12. My hobbies include drinking tea, finding the best nightgowns, reminiscing wistfully about I Love Lucy and the smell of my grandparents ash trays, and, recently, asking that spice drops be added to be stocking stuffer traditions. So delicious and perfectly nostalgic. I wish I had thought of this years ago. My back aches and I have bunions, thanks for being here. (Brach’s also has Holiday Spicettes!)

78. Dog Man books. From the creator of the ultra-popular Captain Underpants series, this is a hit with the tween set. 1,300 reviews, 5 stars. Can’t argue with that.

79. I got Airpods Pro for Christmas last year and absolutely love them. They’ve been a game changer for working from home, going for walks, and doing things around the house. No cords getting tangled and limiting range of motion. Check Costco for discounted Airpods. There’s also these Bluetooth wireless earbuds for $30—they have 104,000 reviews, 4.5 stars, and that’s not a typo.

80. You’ll want a case for them too. This silicon Airpods pro case comes in a million colors, some of which are just $4. This compostable and biodegradable case from Pela also looks good. I have one of their phone cases and like it a lot.

81. Speaking of Costco. In a time when people are stocking up, a membership to Costco, Sam’s Club, BJ’s, or whatever wholesale retail outlet is local to them might come in handy.

82. Do these chocolate-covered cherries make you as nostalgic as they make me? My grandmother always had a box of the Queen Anne cherries but it seems they don’t make them any more. These are a close second.

83. This is a great time for upgraded kitchen items. My husband’s a chef and I got him this Staub spatula last year. We both love it, and the olivewood is gorgeous. Lots of different sizes and colors so shop around.

84. Some classic kitchen towels. Absorbent, restaurant grade, well reviewed.

85. It’s probably time to update a cutting board or two. I recently got a new one when my cantaloupe tasted like garlic all the time and I realized the cutting board was 15 years old. There’s also this multicolor 3-pack if you need to prepare foods separately.

86. Speaking of cutting things, a bread knife for all that sourdough they’ve been making. This Henckels bread knife is about $30 and this bread knife is $13 with 3600 reviews, 4.5 stars.

87. Continuing the theme, this beginner’s sourdough cookbook has 1300 reviews, 5 stars.

88. This sourdough whisk is a game changer. My husband swears by his.

89. A bench scraper. There are a million out there under $10. This one has 5 stars.

90. You could also do a banneton proofing basket, many of which come with accessories.

91. They need a flat, smooth surface to shape their dough. My husband uses a marble slab and says it has made a big difference.

92. King Arthur Flour is truly the king of baking and their sourdough crock is a great place to stash a starter!

93. And these restaurant-grade containers to stash their dough. My personal sourdough chef was thrilled to get these and I am thrilled to no longer find containers of exploding dough in the fridge.

94. These parchment sheets work well to place and lift a loaf into a dutch oven. They fit a half sheet pan and work great for all your baking. No more fighting with a parchment roll that curls back on you.

95. Are they making toast with all that sourdough? These sustainable bamboo toaster tongs will keep their paws cool. Set of two, magnets keep them stuck to the side of the toaster, good stocking stuffer.

96. Commemorate their 2020 endeavors with a bread ornament!

97. The COVID-19 pandemic has brought with it economic distress and isolation as well as an increase in domestic violence globally (source, source). To combat this, you can give to local women’s shelters, anti-violence orgs like RAINN, the largest anti-sexual assault org in the United States.

98. Sarah’s play silks. Simple and built for imagination, a classic Montessori toy. Per their website, these beautiful fabrics might become genie pants, grass to feed your horse, a doll carrier, soup to stir in a pot, a scarf to dance with, and so much more.

99. A personalized license plate for their bike, golf cart, power wheels, or whatever else you want to stick a by-no-means-legal license plate on. Pick your name, pick your state. If, like me, you never saw your name on stuff as a kid NOW IS YOUR CHANCE, MY FRIEND.

100. These adorable rainbow pencils with cute quotes like" “It’s good to be kind”. These rainbow pencils are also lovely and either would make a sweet stocking stuffer.

101. And for a literally sweet stocking stuffer, Tony’s Chocolonely chocolate bars are fair-trade with the mission of making the chocolate industry slavery-free. I’m sorry to say that enslaved people are still a reason that chocolate ends up in most of our homes. Tony’s mission is to disrupt that model and make chocolate 100% slavery-free. Worth every penny.

102. Wait, more cute office and remote school supplies to brighten your Groundhog Day: how about a whole pile of erasers that look like adorable food? I absolutely would have tried to eat these as a kid and also maybe now.

103. My friend Waddie is a third-generation silversmith making stunning jewelry in New Mexico. My husband and I are lucky enough to have a few of his pieces and the quality, beauty, and crafstmanship are second-to-none. Modern design, decades of tradition. Check out his Instagram for even more of his work.

104. A family adventure journal to keep everyone busy and connected to nature with 50 fun fill-in-the-blank tasks like cloud spotting and map drawing.

105. Throw in these paint pens so they can make art out of rocks and bits they find along the way and add them to their own little garden.

106. They might not be able to travel but you can send them to the National Parks with these iconic Pendleton socks. Sales support the National Park Foundation.

107. Or a National Parks t-shirt.

108. Check out the National Parks store as well. Your purchase supports our Parks and they have ornaments, puzzles, toys, and more! You could also get them an America the Beautiful National Parks pass.

109. I’m a big fan of local San Diego shop Collins and Coupe. They ship, deliver locally, have the biggest selection of bitters in Southern California, have a big vintage selection and all the cocktail accompaniments you could ever need, plus they feature Black-owned companies and they’re queer-owned. Every month they feature different minority-owned businesses and pick a charity to donate to. I got my husband a lot of things there last year, including these perfect coupes.

110. Cozy slippers. Highly rated, under $25.

111. Does someone on your list have a favorite Disney story or ride? Did they miss a trip to Disney this year because of the pandemic or maybe they’ve just always dreamed of going? You can find them a t-shirt or ornament or mug or something to mark it for them. I’ve been going to Disneyland since I was a kid but until February, my husband had never been. It was one of the last things we did before COVID, and I bought myself this ornament to commemorate it because I deeply love Peter Pan and my husband enjoyed that ride as much as I always have. Fond memories.

112. “Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” One of my favorite poetry anthologies from my favorite poet. A soothing balm in These Times. Great for anyone who is reflective, thoughtful, loves poetry, literature, nature, or being outdoors.

113. Obbi Good Label in Singapore focuses on well-made products—my husband knows the owners through the leatherworking world. They took their time coming out with their masks because they wanted to get it right. They have ear loops and an adjustable neck strap so you can take the mask off without losing it. Lightweight, waterproof, comfortable, filter pocket. Got to us in two days from Singapore, comes with filters.

114. This is a great year for consumable gifts you can ship. One of my favorite things is the smell of citrus in cold air—it’s how I know winter has finally come. Keep them in citrus all winter long with Al’s Family Farms Citrus Club, or just send them a crate of sunny oranges or grapefruits.

115. Of course there’s always the classic fancy pears. You know they are fancy because 1 in 9 is wrapped in gold foil and if that’s not statistics I don’t know what is. Wait does this mean 8 out 9 are poor because they can’t afford golden robes? ApPEARantly. I am sorry. Anyway, sometimes you can find them at Trader Joe’s or your local grocery store in which case I highly recommend getting them for yourself.

116. Paint a tea set at home.

117. As we’ve all been exploring new ways of sourcing food, my husband and I started using Butcher Box. It’s grass-fed, grass-finished beef, free-range, organic chicken, heritage-breed pork, and wild-caught seafood. The quality is great, the website is easy, and the prices are about the same as what we were already doing. They have gift boxes and gift cards available and if you use my referral link you’ll save $15.

118. If you’re giving the gift of meat, you may also be interested in the Meater. The first wireless smart thermometer. The app helps you cook your cut just right. I am also a little in love with the name and the copywriter who came up with it.

119. And these bear claw things, for anyone who spends a lot of time smoking meats. Now they can shred it without burning themselves. Well reviewed, made in USA, various colors.

120. A beautiful lipstick in a classic shade. I’ve heard about Mac’s Ruby Woo for years and got a sample in the mail recently. I wore it around the house in my pajamas and now I am telling you to buy it so you can wear it around your house in your pajamas too, which is how you know that marketing works.

121. An air fort. KEEP THOSE KIDS BUSY. Recommended by a friend for hours of fun. Lots of colors. Maybe include a box fan too. A friend also recommends this modular fort which does not require a fan.

122. It’s 2020, don’t act like you’re above hanging a stick of butter on your tree. Multiple retailers.

123. A fun and beautiful box of macarons from Dana’s Bakery in delightful flavors like s’mores, champagne celebration, and peanut butter & jelly. Check out her other goodies too—tons of vegan and gluten-free options and monthly subscriptions.

124. Magic kit. Melissa & Doug always makes a great product and this is very well reviewed.

125. Somewhat related, i’ve always wanted to learn how to juggle. What better time to do that? I’m asking Santa for these beginner juggling balls. They come in so many cool colors! The classic Duncan toys set is good too.

126. Speaking of toys, helping ensure other kids have a holiday is always a great gift. Check out your local angel tree, social organizations, or Toys for Tots.

127. A charging pad bundle. With everyone home all the time it seems we need a charger in every room. I like a charging pad because you can easily throw your device on it for a bit while you’re rushing around doing something else. I would never have picked it out but I was given one and love it. There are a million out there, but Anker makes great product and this bundle has both a pad and a stand so they can charge their phone while propping it up to continue their Zoom happy hour or looking at the sourdough recipe they’re using. 1500 reviews, 4.5 stars.

128. And honestly while you’re at it you might as well throw in a phone charger. Anker makes a good one of those too. Now more than ever, you can never have too many ways to charge your lifelines to the outside world. You can even get a 10-pack of the 6-foot Amazon Basics and throw one in every stocking.

129. Ceramic Christmas tree nightlight. Break it out the day after Thanksgiving and start a new tradition. There are also glow-in-the-dark icicles for the tree in your tween’s bedroom.

130. Speaking of ornaments, this spinner ornament maker comes with rave reviews from several friends. Keep those kids busy! You may want to include extra ornaments too.

131. Privacy Pop bed tent. My friend’s daughter has this in the number one spot on her list. Multiple sizes and colors.

132. A virtual flower arranging class with Alice’s Table. They send the flowers and then you log in for instruction at the appointed time. A friend has done it and recommends.

133. SEQUIN MASK. Recommended by same flower friend! There’s one with filter pocket and rose gold too. The lady has taste.

134. Shakespearean insult bandages from a small business with unique gifts.

135. Like this fowl language dish towel.

136. And pickle jelly beans! I can hear you groaning but we both know you know someone who loves pickles and would be delighted to find these in their stocking. (There are also dill pickle candy canes.)

137. The Polar Express. For your favorite kids or nostalgic middle-aged friends and family (hi).

138. Cozy kid’s henley.

139. Kiwi Crate subscription. Inspiring young innovators with art and science. Give the gift of learning! They have boxes for ages 0-104 for crafts, engineering, tinkering, geography, science, and more. Keep Those Kids Busy.

140. Two Chicks Jerky. Grass-fed, woman-owned. Delicious.

141. Pinch Me Therapy Dough. Aromatherapy infused. Like a fidget device that makes you feel like you’re at a spa. Perfect for 2020. Proceeds benefit The Wounded Warrior Project, which helps American soldiers who are too often left to deal with trauma on their own after fighting for you and me. PS— PTSD is treatable. It doesn’t have to be like this.

142. Pair it with this beautiful and inspiring book, The Boy, The Mole, The Fox and the Horse from cartoonist Charlie Mackesy. A work of art that will make you feel warm, loved, and secure.

143. Indoor carnival games kit to keep those kids busy. Or they can huck the bean bags at each other while using the cones for an indoor soccer game in which someone breaks their clavicle. Also good for live action Cones of Dunshire, probably.

144. A book subscription box or a stack of books from a small shop like Politics & Prose. Many bookstores let you select by age with options for added gifts and fun stuff, so shop around and see what suits. Vroman’s is Southern California’s oldest bookshop and they recently asked for help and support. They have awesome Gift Bundles. The Ripped Bodice does custom care packages that are delightful. It’s the only romance bookstore in the U.S., and owned by two sisters who regularly publish a diversity report. Mahogany Books is Black-owned with a focus on elevating Black books and voices and they run a book club. Check out OwlCrate too. And to support small bookstores, you can always shop at bookshop.org.

145. This is…fairly specific, but I think we’ve all been finding innovative ways to get out of the house and if they’ve been wanting a kayak, I really love my Lifetime Kayak. Single boats were sold out a lot of this year (guess why) so you could make all their floaty dreams come true. You may want to get them a set of wheels depending on how they get to the water. I have this scupper hole cart and despite it not having great reviews I LOVE it. It also generates a lot of comments from strangers because you just pop your kayak on it and you’re off. So easy.

146. I’ve never said no to a Lindt truffle. Maybe leave some on your friend’s doorstep when they’re having a particularly melancholy homeschooling/pandemic/work from home day, put a big bowl on your coffee table, or divvy up between stockings and/or care packages.

147. Or maybe you or your giftee want to curl up with your bag of chocolate while reading this holiday romance from Christina Lauren. For more easy, fun, and engrossing books to give, I also put together this list of Escape Reads for a Pandemic.

148. A variety pack of the absolute best chip and bag clips. I love how the ones I use most often have magnets so they’re always within arm’s reach right on the fridge. These clips are also colorful, magnetic, well reviewed, cheap, and perfect for holding kids’ art on the fridge or even distributing through stockings because why not.

149. Labyrinth. A classic family game. 6,000 reviews, 5 stars.

150. We Drink Bubbles is a small, woman-owned company in San Diego that sells sparkling wine from around the world. A friend ordered from them and said they included a personal, hand-written note. They have lots of gift options to choose from including a bubble club subscription.

151. Everyone needs lip stuff in their stocking. Can’t go wrong with Aquaphor or good old flavored Chapstick (I always loved finding one in the toe of my stocking as a kid, even if I often tried eating it, are you sensing a theme.)

152. Burt’s Bees has gotten into the matching family pajamas game along with everyone else. Target and Old Navy have collections for kids, adults, and pets too. Order early because they always seem to sell out.

153. Buy this giant tub of mini candy canes if you want to feel like you’re back at the office around the holidays? And/or divvy up for stockings, care packages, and throw a handful in a gift bag of wine you leave on your friend’s doorstep. Mini candy canes are the glitter of holiday cheer, might as well spread them everywhere because you can’t get rid of them. Soft peppermints too.

154. Speaking of candy canes, a festive activity book. This one is for early readers, full of activities. $4, fun curled around the top of a stocking or wrapped up with a box of crayons.

155. Crayons! 24-pack for $1.50 or so (gets down to $.50 on sale), earning this the coveted Cheapest Item On The Gift Guide award this year!

156. A gift to the ACLU. Because while many moons ago I believed this organization to be a four-letter word, it turns out I didn’t really understand what they do and we should all be concerned with upholding civil rights.

157. New Yorker Cartoon Page-a-Day Calendar. Or any daily calendar they may like. Thoughts of Dog, Jeopardy (yes please), 1,000 Places to See Before You Die (YES PLEASE). Anything to mark the time and maybe smile in this Groundhog Day hellscape.

158. Gorgeous headbands and handkerchiefs from Hemlock Goods. Over 40 designs, including a Votes For Women collection that includes buttons, and they have masks. Recommended by a friend.

159. Cowgirl Creamery makes some of the best cheese I’ve ever had. They have lots of gift options including gift boxes and monthly cheese clubs. If you ever want to get me a gift I won’t say no to a wheel of Mt. Tam (“Brie’s quirky Californian cousin”) or Humboldt Fog from their sister company.

160. And if they’re at all into cheese/cheese boards, I can’t say enough good things about Braswell’s Balsamic Onion Jam. Sweet, savory, and truly incredible on a sharp cheddar. It would be delicious on goat cheese, cream cheese, baked brie, or anything your heart desires. Even spooned over a pork roast or roasted squash. Their fig preserves are also excellent—maybe add a few items to a gift basket/Just Add Cheese plate you leave on a friend’s doorstep. Look for this brand at your local grocery and gourmet stores. You can’t go wrong.

161. If they have a smoker or a grill, a smoking tube so they can easily cold smoke their own bacon, cheese, fish, and ice. (Smoked ice for cocktails! I am told this is a thing. Smoke the water and THEN freeze it, OBVIOUSLY, I definitely didn’t spend time wondering how you keep the ice frozen while smoking it.) My husband brought a home-smoked cheese assortment with us to Thanksgiving last year and it got demolished. The favorite was a smoked British cheddar, but any cheese will do. Pair it with a bag of applewood pellets for a great gift.

162. Get your favorite cocktail aficionado this fantastic clear ice ball maker for use with regular water or water after they have smoked it, which, again, is obviously the correct order of making smoked ice.

163. A tie-dye kit, because it’s 2020. Lots of choices out there, this one is well reviewed. You’ll also want to include t-shirts, sweatshirts, masks, or whatever they might want to dye. Alternately, my husband has been using this professional-grade tie-dye kit and raves about it. A little more expensive, but a small company and they sell 100% cotton things to dye.

164. The softest joggers in all the land. I haven’t liked many joggers but I have a pair of these and want them in every color. They’re from Old Navy so wait until they go on sale then stack coupons.

165. One of my favorite places to shop for fun, irreverent gifts, Voluspa candles, these wonderful Kala soaps, stocking stuffers, and care package treats is Strapping Store. They’re queer-owned in Sacramento, they do a ton of work in their community, and this summer their windows were shot out. I can all but guarantee you will find something there for someone on your list. They have great pet items. This retro classic peg game and pick up sticks are each under $5.

166. For the gardener on your list, stunning heirloom glass gem corn. Available several places, so shop around.

167. A solidarity sticker to stuff a stocking or stash in a card because black lives matter. 100% of profits from the sale of this sticker go to BLM community funding. In various sizes from this delightful BIPOC-owned Etsy shop.

168. The Night Before Christmas. Classic, traditional. That Santa is a little…intense so maybe shop around for a different cover. Support your local bookshop or check out bookshop.org.

169. A Boy Called Christmas was one of my favorite reads last year. A wonderful book for kids from one to ninety-two. The Best Christmas Pageant Ever and 84, Charing Cross Road are also sweet, quick reads that would be a perfect stocking stuffer or gift.

170. Maybe pair those Santa books with this jolly Santa ornament. There are also Santa-wearing-a-mask ornaments. Get the 3-pack and you can put them in gift bags with wine and toilet paper and hand sanitizer and Doritos for your closest friends.

171. A penny board, which I heard are all the rage with the tween and teen set. So many awesome color combos that I truly agonized over which to post. Don’t forget the helmet and elbow pads.

172. Sleeping Queens card game. Recommenced by a friend, 3,300 reviews, 5 stars.

173. Cornhole. Stay entertained at home, while camping, or in the park. Comes with a carrying case. There’s a soft indoor kids’ cornhole game as well.

174. If they’re improving their backyard space because they’re spending more time there than ever, or if they like camping, the Solo Stove comes highly recommended by several friends. They come in different sizes. Great for campfires, s’mores, hot dogs, and keeping warm.

175. De Soto Sport makes some of my favorite masks. They have lots of styles and patterns, including their Skin Cooler masks that I often reach for while walking and kayaking. They have a filter pocket and you can tie them either behind your ears or around your head.

176. A cozy, Christmas tree scented candle. I have a feeling many of us will be burning many more candles than usual this cozy season. I have recently and suddenly become a Bath & Body Works candle devotee. It’s Olivia Muenter’s fault, iykyk. Wait until they go on sale. The Yankee Candle Balsam & Cedar candle is also very good.

177. I got a jar of fancy matches as part of a gift and thought it was such a nice touch.

178. They may also enjoy this USB rechargeable arc lighter, which has made the Gift Guide before but I love mine so much I wanted to remind you of it. Great for anyone who like burning candles, grilling, camping, or otherwise intentionally setting things aflame.

179. A bluetooth eye mask. A lot of people like to fall asleep to books or music or, lately, meditations. I haven't been able to figure out how to listen to my Calm app sleep meditations without waking my husband...until I saw this. It's on my list. Give it with the gift of the Calm app!

180. Hearos ear plugs. Because listen, it’s 2020 and we’ve all needed these at some point.

181. Skip-Bo. It’s truly the year for old-school card games. Fill those stockings, throw them in a care package, or buy them early to keep everyone entertained when you’re all losing your minds homeschooling in the snow. 8,000 reviews, 5 stars. My husband and I have also been enjoying Monopoly Deal. Play in under 15 minutes, lots of fun, 11,000 reviews, 5 stars. And of course there is always the unbeatable good old deck of cards to stuff a stocking.

182. Bath bombs. Recommended by a friend. 11,000 reviews, 5 stars.

183. A wildlife cam for the backyard! See who comes to visit you and eat your tomatoes.

184. A metal detector will help them uncover other kinds of unseen treasure. I bet there’s someone on your list who’s always wanted one.

185. Star of David ornament.

186. I always like an upgraded every day item for a gift or stocking stuffer. Invisibobble hair ties are my favorites. Tons of colors and options. I also heard these weird Goody ouchless bumpy forever hair ties are good. These big gold hair pins are also fun.

187. Dino floor puzzle for littles. Many to choose from by this brand. I also like this floor puzzle that’s a state map of the United States. Teach that geography early!

188. Small BIPOC-owned children’s toy shop Kido in Chicago focuses on inclusivity and sustainable products. Look at this gorgeous colorful wood puzzle. They have tons of cool stuff like this wooden robot and watermelon umbrella. Go check them out!

189. And for grown-up puzzles, this lazy Susan puzzle spinner board. WHOMST AMONGST US hasn’t done a puzzle in recent months.

190. Throw in this beautiful puzzle! There are a million puzzles out there. I like this gardener’s palette, cat zodiac!!, holiday doors that I want to do while sitting by a fire drinking hot chocolate, a very cool vampire’s castle escape room puzzle teens may like, and single-color challenger puzzles.

191. Phone Soap UV Phone Sanitizer. Happy Pandemic Holiday Shopping! This would be great for anyone on your list. Various colors.

192. Mommy & Me mask/scrunchie/bow sets from my friend Lilly’s shop.

193. Well, some of you knew this was coming. BEANS! I have gotten extremely into beans in the last few months. I am in love with Rancho Gordo’s gorgeous, delicious, high quality heirloom beans. They also have chiles, hot sauces, popcorn, and all kinds of stuff. A treasure trove of foodie stocking stuffers, gifts, and care package treats. This bean gift box would be a great treat for me. I mean your friend.

194. Paint by Sticker. A friend of mine loves these and I hope to find one under the tree this year. A very soothing distraction. Many styles and themes to choose from.

195. This very cool wooden rocking board. Montessori toys. Click through to see the zillion ways it can be used, from a balance board to a car ramp, yoga aid, and more.

196. Has their favorite yoga, spin, or exercise studio gone online? Get them a gift card and support small businesses. I also love the DownDog yoga app (currently free for healthcare workers, and has 5 stars with over 200,000 reviews), if you want to get them an iTunes/Apple/Google Play gift card with that suggestion.

197. Aggravation! A very apt 2020 gift, frankly.

198. Ish. An inspiring fable for every creative person on your list.

199. I can’t stop looking at these embroidered felt ornaments. Ummm also these glitter dinos. May we all find these tiny moments of joy this year more than ever.

200. And finally, this print from my friend Jennie’s Etsy shop, Nice Handwriting. Because you showing up matters and joy is a revolutionary act. She’ll make you a custom print with your own favorite phrase and custom colors too.

201. I always end with a request to donate somewhere. This year, I’m asking you to give. Give your money if you can, but give also of your time, your heart, your voice, your talents. Give your blood to your local Blood Bank or Red Cross, if you can. And most importantly, acknowledge your fellow human beings. Focus on empathy. See each other. Try to learn from a different perspective. Say hello and thank you to the person who delivers your packages, takes away your garbage, keeps your IT up and running, makes your coffee or your lunch or delivers your groceries. Now more than ever, it’s crucial that we see each other. A heartfelt note is always the best gift when you see someone for who they are and what they do. Kind words go so much farther than we could ever know, and we can make a difference every day just by using them.

I hope in this holiday season you can make some new traditions and find the pockets of joy. Thank you for reading.

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Caitlin Hannah

May 9, 2020

Book Reviews, Books, Fun, Gift Guides, Writing, Book Lists

32 Escape Reads for a Pandemic

Caitlin Hannah

May 9, 2020

Book Reviews, Books, Fun, Gift Guides, Writing, Book Lists

*brisk clap!*

WELL! Here we are. I don’t know about you, but escape reads have been both a lifesaver and about all I have the bandwidth for digesting lately. So without further ado, if you want some recommendations for fluffy escapism and engrossing stories, you’re in the right spot.

(A little bit of ado though! I use Amazon affiliate links but I know people have mixed feelings on Amazon and also want to shop small. Bookshop.org is a great resource for supporting small booksellers and I posted some of these titles in an affiliate list over there as well. If you’re sending a book to a friend, see if you can find a small bookstore near them or use bookshop.org to do that. It’s a bit more environmentally friendly too.)

And now, the books!

1. The Royal We. Listen, this is just always going to be my favorite escape read recommendation. It’s Prince William and Kate Middleton fan fiction by the ever-delightful Fug Girls, and I’m pretty sure it’s made it onto more than one Gift Guide. If you haven’t read it by now, I really don’t know what you’re waiting for. The sequel, The Heir Affair, comes out this summer and you can read my full review here.

2. Animal Dreams is an old favorite book. Reading it is always a comfort, and makes me long for the desert. A warm, real book about relationships, home, and finding ourselves. It’s in the same world and has some of the same characters as The Bean Trees, which is another favorite.

3. Evvie Drake Starts Over was one of my favorite reads last year. I was sad when it ended and didn’t want to leave its world. Smart, funny, bittersweet, and warmed my cold New England heart with its Maine setting. My full review here.

4. Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine. I had low expectations for this book, but fell in love with its warm, charming humanity.

5. Devotions. This anthology of poems by Mary Oliver, my favorite poet, brings me back to the beauty of small quiet moments. Sit with this book for five minutes and feel the weight lift off your shoulders.

I’ve been on a real tear lately with Christina Lauren, who is actually two authors writing under one pen name. Each book so far is just like a romcom come to life, with well developed characters, fun dialogue, and laugh-out-loud moments: absolutely perfect right now. I will say that these get quite steamy in parts so be warned.

6. Roomies was like How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days meets Hamilton meets Sex and the City. If you need a distraction, this is perfect. My favorite of all theirs so far.

7. Twice in a Blue Moon was the first one I read and I was hooked. Felt like Notting Hill. London! Actors! Fraught love!

8. My Favorite Half-Night Stand. Someone said this reminded them of New Girl, and I can definitely see that.

9. Pretty Things, by Janelle Brown. Could not put this down. Riveting suspense with a hefty dose of social commentary. My full review here.

10. I Miss You When I Blink. A collection of essays about our modern world and the author’s life. Relatable, smart, and laugh-out-loud funny.

11. The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo was one of my favorite reads from 2018, also known as the year I read 100 books. Engrossing, charming, smart, and warm. I’ll never look at Hollywood the same way again. I was slightly embarrassed to sob while finishing it on a plane but YOU certainly needn’t worry about having that same experience any time soon!

12. By the same author, Daisy Jones & the Six is brilliant. Told entirely in dialogue, you’ll think this story of a turbulent 70s band is real. (I knew it was fiction but I googled several times anyway just to be sure.)

5/2/21: her new one, Malibu Rising, comes out in June and was also engrossing! I didn’t love it as much as her others but I think if you like either of these you’ll like it too.

13. The Gentleman’s Guide to Vice and Virtue is fun, saucy, and a little bit ridiculous. Delightful.

14. I’ll Give You the Sun. Technically YA, this is beautiful and compulsively readable. I read it a couple years ago and still think about it. Jandy Nelson is an incredible writer, her books full of well-drawn characters, big love, and tiny beautiful moments.

15. Also by her, I really enjoyed The Sky is Everywhere.

16. Burnout: the Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle. This isn’t so much escapism as it is a reminder of how much power we have to cope with tough situations. I still physically jump up, down, and around to literally shake off a stressful event because of the science in this book. Compelling, validating, entertaining.

17. The Positive Shift. In the same vein, The Positive Shift will give you hope. Small things can make a huge difference to our well-being. The takeaways from both of them: move your body, find ways to connect with the people you love, get outside and put your eyes on some nature. My full review here.

18. Updated in Fall 2020 : Please do not buy these books. I don’t know if we can separate the art from the artist, but I know I’m not giving the author any more money after her cruel and inhumane comments about trans people.

Legally I don’t think you’re allowed to have a list of escapism books without including Harry Potter. You can get them at your library or borrow from a friend.

19. The Heart’s Invisible Furies. Took me a little bit to get into this, and then I couldn’t put it down. Literary, beautiful, lovely, with one of the best opening lines I’ve ever read.

20. In Five Years was unexpected and the most engrossing thing I’ve read in a while. I don’t know that I would have picked it up myself, but a friend sent it to me and I’m so glad she did.

21. Red, White & Royal Blue was one of my favorite reads last year. I sent a couple copies to friends recently and I think my gift note summed it up nicely: “This is one of my recent favorites and *Stefon voice* this book has EVERYthing. Royals, DC nostalgia, progressive politics, SAUCY DIALOGUE. Hope you enjoy this perfectly distracting read during All This.”

22. Speaking of saucy, The Idea of You. This has no business being as good as it is. The premise is absurd, it’s (very) steamy, the cover is terrible, and it’s Harry Styles fan fic. And yet! It’s amazing—funny, smart, engaging, unexpected, and feminist. (I’m sorry, cover designer!)

23. When Life Gives You Lululemons. Is this going to win the Pulitzer? No. Is it easy and going to distract you from life for a while? Yes. From the author who brought us all The Devil Wears Prada.

24. Robert Galbraith’s Cormoran Strike novels. I always look forward to a new release in this mystery series from J.K. Rowling under her pen name.

25. The Likeness. No one writes like Tana French. Impeccable suspense, Ireland, well-drawn characters. This is my favorite of hers. In fact, I’m due for a reread.

26. Crazy Rich Asians. Enjoy this then dive into the movie.

27. One Day in December. Like a cheesy Christmas movie in your hot little hands.

28. Normal People. A coming-of-age novel that hooked me from the first page. I devoured it, and now I can’t wait to watch the miniseries on Hulu.

29. Circe was one of my top picks from 2018. Not a single wasted word in this retelling of ancient stories. From the same author and in a similar vein, I also loved Song of Achilles. Both are great on audio.

30. Sookie Stackhouse. Did you watch True Blood? It was based on these books. They are ridiculous. Recommend. There are a lot of them in the series so they should keep you busy—and they’re currently a couple bucks each on Kindle.

31. The Bookshop on the Corner. Reading this gave me the feeling of reading when I was 12. Engrossing, endearing, and a light read that completely took me away.

32. City of Girls. Fun, smart, unexpected. Will make you long for your friends and New York.

Update! It’s still a pandemic and I am still reading, so I’m adding to this. More than 32 reads for the…price of 32.

33. 28 Summers. I’ve not loved any Elin Hildebrand but people kept raving about her new one so I gave it a whirl because it’s a pandemic and I literally have nothing better to do. I’m so glad I did. I couldn’t put it down—the perfect escape read. (Literally, because I now want to escape both from this pandemic and to summer on Nantucket.) It was long and follows people over the course of 28 (obviously) years, so you can really sink into this one.

34. The Flatshare. This was so good. I expected pure fluff but this was surprisingly warm, lovely, and honest—a fun little distraction. It’s got heart and depth and people I want to be friends with. I devoured it.

35. Big Summer. I don’t really understand what happened and I also could not stop greedily reading this book. Whatever you think this book is about, you’re going to be wrong. Recommend picking it up without reading any reviews. I will be scratching my head over this one for a while. Couldn’t put it down.

36. The Happily Ever After Playlist. Delightful. I couldn’t put this down. Perfect fluffy distraction that made me laugh and cry. Fun fact: the author is the same woman who owns the bakery behind the infamous “vageode” cake (google it if you don’t know). She’s the one who wrote the many hilarious replies to commenters during that whole thing, if that gives you an idea of the writing you’re in for. There are no accidentally graphic geology cakes in this, I recommend it nonetheless.

37. Beach Read. What a lovely and surprisingly weighty little book. Not at all what I expected given the title. It is a rom-com but it’s also serious and really well done. Not the fizzy bubbly confection I expected but still a beach read I couldn’t put down! Lots of buzz for this one.

38. Writers & Lovers. This cover is terrible and the name isn’t much better but everyone said to read it and they were right. I loved this. Devoured it. So much about the story felt familiar and comfortable and not just because of the Boston setting. This is a book of my (cold New England) heart. So much so that by the end, I loved the cover and the name, too.

UPDATE #2! I have more to add!

39. The Guest List by Lucy Foley. I found this utterly engrossing. My advice: don’t overthink it, just go along for the ride and enjoy being sucked into this page-turner. She also wrote The Hunting Party, which is essentially the same book set in a different place. Not quite as good but equally engrossing.

40. One to Watch. This is one of those books where I’m like “yeah, I like it. I think it’s pretty decent.” And then realize I’m taking extra-long walks and finding more things to clean just so I can listen a little bit longer. So fun on audio (complete with media commentary and podcast excerpts that appear in the text) and chockablock with body positivity and all kinds of diversity. I devoured it and want every single outfit described.

41. Nobody Will Tell You This But Me. A love letter from a grieving granddaughter to her grandmother. But! Written as if the grandmother is telling her own story, personally, after her death, to her granddaughter. It’s love letters all around. Beautifully done, wonderful on audio, so many laugh-out-loud moments and I sobbed through the end.

Caitlin Hannah

October 31, 2019

Fun, Gift Guides, Liking Lately

2019 Holiday Gift Guide

Caitlin Hannah

October 31, 2019

Fun, Gift Guides, Liking Lately

Hello! I’ve got gift ideas for everyone on your list, and I’m so glad you’re here.

Every year I put together a holiday gift guide featuring quality, interesting items at all price points, for a variety of giftees. Whether stocking stuffers or big gifts, hostess gifts or gifts for your kids, gifts for grandparent or gifts for baby, I hope you'll find ideas for everyone on your list. And this year, I’m making a point to add more products that are eco-conscious.

Previous gift guides still have lots of good choices, so don't miss them: 2014, 2014 part 2, 2015, 2016, 2017, 2018.

Some affiliate links used, but none of these items are sponsored.

Don’t forget to sign up for Ebates/Rakuten so you can get cash back on your purchases. It’s just good sense!

Happy browsing, happy shopping, happy everything!

1. Starting out with a bit of beauty and craftsmanship, because I just love these Heath Ceramics bud vases so much.

2. This Pop Icons desk calendar, to give your giftee the gift of life throughout 2020.

3. A classic cribbage board. Under $10, a great family or hostess gift, perfect for the coziest time of year and the long winter that follows. Don’t forget a deck of cards. (Ooh! This retro 2-pack of Bicycle playing cards comes with a storage tin that’s kind of cool.)

4. Include some fancy sweet, spicy, crispy snack mix and call it game night in a bag.

5. Bone conduction headphones. They don’t go in your ears, they rest over the top and conduct sound through, you guessed it, your bones. You can still hear what’s going on around you. Safer for walking, jogging, and biking in traffic and busy areas, and good for hearing whats going on at home if your giftee listens while doing things around the house. Some of the comments have said that for people with hearing loss or ear drum problems it’s a better solution than earbuds.

6. These little vehicles from the makers of the Erector Set. Perfect stocking stuffer for the tinkerer in your life. That link may not let you choose the style. Buy the set of 6 if you have a lot of tinkerers on your list. Poke around online and in store to see if you can find them at other retailers, too. Dollar Tree may have them.

7. One of the best books I read this year, Evvie Drake Starts Over. Smart, funny, charming, relatable, so well written. I wanted to live in this world and was sad when it ended. Also, did you know you can give someone an audiobook via Audible? Evvie was great on audio. You can also do a gift card. Good for walkers, commuters, runners, people who like podcasts, or listening to stories while they do stuff around the house.

8. The very best linen tea towels. I was given some about ten years ago, and they are still going strong. They wash well and look great always. Beautiful, classic, and a great splurge.

9. This ultralight keychain comes with two titanium toothpicks but can also hold pills. Sleek and functional, this is a perfect stocking stuffer.

10. Endless hours of creative fun with these colorful rainbow blocks. Build, stack, lay out, use like props—the possibilities are endless.

11. I love giving an upgraded version of an every day item, especially for things most people won’t indulge in for themselves. It’s the driest time of year so when better to splurge on a luscious hand and nail cream. This one is very well reviewed, and in my experience Clarins makes a nice product.

12. A hand-crank, self-powered flashlight, radio, and phone charger all in one. Solar charge, hand crank, or use electricity. 4.5 stars, 1200 reviews, under $25. A great gift for someone who has everything, who lives in an area prone to natural disasters, or really anyone—safety first.

13. Bamboo toothbrushes are compostable and would be a great stocking stuffer for the eco elf on your list. I started using these and like them a lot. And I am extremely picky about dental care.

14. I’m really quite delighted that the ceramic Christmas trees of my youth are making a comeback. This ceramic Christmas tree Christmas tree ornament would be a sweet and nostalgic stocking stuffer. And oh gosh, these little silver ones would be perfect for someone too!

15. Cheese paper and cheese bags. This was on the Gift Guide last year and was a popular choice for stockings and host gifts. I got some for my husband (the chef) and he liked it so much that it’s a staple now. Better than plastic wrap! Pair with your favorite cheese for a memorable hostess gift. Stay fresh, cheese bags.

16. In the same vein, reusable Bee’s Wrap is a great stocking stuffer, too.

17. Coyuchi makes lush, sustainable sheets and bedding. I got some years ago on HauteLook or one of those sites at a super discount, and my only regret is that I didn’t buy more. They are soft as h*ck, beautiful, and have held up perfectly. They’re organic, made from Fair Trade materials, and otherwise consciously produced in lots of ways. My sheets are very basic unlike the ones I’m about to link to, the price for which is insane. But if you’re feeling flush, treat someone on your list to their organic linen chambray sheets. (Someone like, specifically, me.)

18. Is there a wee elf in your life? If you don’t buy them this, I’m telling your mom. Go look at the photos of babies in the reviews, it is DELIGHTFUL. There’s a Santa one too.

19. I find Pela cases very soothing to look at. Especially the one with bees. Made from compostable materials, but durable like plastic. 5% of sales go to an environmental charity.

20. I am just really super in love with Tate’s Cookies. On principle, I don’t even like crispy chocolate chip cookies. A chocolate chip cookie is at its best with a crisp edge and a chewy middle. AND YET. These cookies. Once you pop you can’t stop. A great gift for a host, a friend who is struggling to get through the season, your far-flung family, or the person on your list that has everything. Gluten-free options available. Amazon has a selection, and the Tate’s Bakeshop website has a ton of flavors (more than just chocolate chip) and gift packages.

21. How about a gorgeous and whimsical notepad from Alexa Pulitzer? Something for every taste. I’m partial to the queen bee and the cat in a ruff.

22. You need these sunglasses and so does everyone on your list. They look great on everyone (seriously) and I get compliments literally every time I wear them. One time my husband and I were in a drive-thru, and the person who took my order said “I love your glasses!” and I said to my husband, “I get compliments literally every time I wear these.” Then I pulled up to the window to pay and the person said, “I love your glasses!” Case dismissed, they’re $10, buy them in every color.

23. Monopoly that fits in a stocking and won’t take 172 hours to play. Takes just 15 minutes, has 3000+ reviews and 5 stars. Sold.

24. Spice things up with an orthopedic knee pillow! Giving the gift of pain-free sleep is extremely sexy. 6,000+ reviews, 4.5 stars. I can’t live without mine. Know someone who has back or hip tightness, or just likes taking care of their body? This could be the greatest gift you ever give them.

25. I love these simple, unusual wood stacking blocks. These ocean tones are gorgeous too.

26. My husband and I were recently sent some Malley’s Chocolates, and they were so delicious. They have some classic and some unusual chocolate treats. Might be just the thing for the hard-to-shop-for person on your list. These marshmallow-caramel-nut combos are right up my alley. Sometimes they have chocolate covered Fritos! There are also classic peanut butter Buckeyes as well as a dark chocolate version, and intriguing peanut butter and jelly truffles. Check out their holiday collection for stocking stuffers too.

27. My husband has had a lot of lounge/pajama pants over the years. He says these pants are some of the best he’s ever had. Light, soft, and #ThanksTheyHavePockets. Make it a full matching set with the top, too.

28. There’s something so simple and sweet about these knit plush ornaments in classic shapes. They remind me of an advent calendar my grandmother made my brother and I when we were little.

29. And this dreidel ornament is beautiful.

30. I’m very into this card case from Dagne Dover. It’s coated canvas, which is nice if you or your giftee are into a leather alternative. Good for minimalists. Classic lines, several card slots, small d-ring on the back, variety of colors, good for all genders. $35, sometimes on sale for $20! Might have to treat myself.

31. Know a college kid? An aging hippie? Someone on your list wants these reclaimed record coasters.

32. Go for sheer nostalgia with this chestnut roasting pan. If you’ve ever wandered down a street perfumed with the smell of chestnuts roasting over open coals, you know it’s more about the experience than anything else. Throw in some fresh chestnuts and get ready to make some memories around the fire pit or fireplace.

33. Okay, this is maybe a little weird and it’s not very eco-friendly but I feel like this is the right gift for someone. 100 individual-serving packets of Bonne Maman strawberry preserves that they can shove in a purse or backpack. Maybe a traveler, medical professional, student, loved one with allergies? They’re kosher! I just feel like someone needs this and also wow you really can get anything on Amazon.

34. How about a DIY vegan/dairy-free cheese kit?

35. A friend of mine recommended this apron. It crosses in the back in the Japanese style. Slips on easily, nothing to tie, has pockets. Sleek look, soft linen. A couple of colors if you poke around the site.

36. While we’re in the kitchen, another friend of mine wrote a book! Hack Your Cupboard: Make Great Food With What You’ve Got is perfect for someone new to the kitchen. Students, recent grads, that one person who’s never quite gotten the hang of cooking but always wanted to. I haven’t read this yet, but my pal Carla is talented and has great taste in food and I’m excited to have this on the Gift Guide this year.

37. Round out the gift for the kitchen newbie with my favorite potholders, because they probably need some. I’m personally partial to the square pot holder, but the combo glove and square is a nice starter pack—especially while they get to know what they like. This new Williams-Sonoma Ultimate Pot Holder is silicone backed and looks pretty great, too.

38. A pocket disco ball! $6 and buckets of fun. USB connectable, a perfect stocking stuffer for kids, kids at heart, and anyone who loves a dance party. There’s a clear one too.

39. Bring the fun to the family party or win the white elephant gift exchange with Reindeer Games.

40. My husband loves this Kiehl's Facial Fuel lip balm and I love to steal it from him. They called it Facial Fuel and make the packaging all dark so that you’ll know it’s MANLY skin care.

41. We both love this Kiehls' super scrubby soap, and this is a great deal. Still a pricey treat but you get 3 for almost the price of 2.

42. Speaking of lip balm, this Dr. Bronner’s multi-pack of lip balms looks good. They make a good product and there are some interesting flavors. Split it up between stockings or give them all to your favorite smooching partner.

43. I didn’t even know they made these. Scan your photo negatives and slides to digital with Kodak Scanza. This is a perfect gift for the person on your list with an attic full of negatives and retirement time on their hands!

44. Hostess Gift Idea! A friend of mine went through a period of having a lot of events and gatherings at her home, and many people graciously brought her the gift of a bottle of wine. She loves wine. She still ended up with more wine than she could possibly drink. Last year at her holiday party, I threw a bottle of this Hollyberry handsoap into a wine bag and put it on the gift table next to approx. 127 other wine bags, which I am sure contained actual wine. She loved the smell and didn’t have to find a spot for yet another bottle of thoughtful and kindly given wine.

Alternate suggestion: just go buy this for yourself. I bought it for her because I became obsessed with it last year. IT SMELLS SO GOOD.

45. Mulling spices could also make a good hostess gift. Pair with your favorite local cider, or suggest it as a way to use up that wine. These mulling spice sachets are cool because you can use them like tea bags. If you are going to a lot of parties this year, you could buy bulk or make your own, and package in mason jars.

46. My favorite pajamas. It’s not the first Gift Guide they’ve appeared on, and I’m sure it won’t be the last. Soft, classic, cozy, chic. I feel like Meghan Markle would approve. I love the nightshirts, too.

47. A home projector for extra special movie nights. 6,700 reviews, 4.5 stars, under $100. Use with DVD player, smart TV, you name it. They’ll need a white sheet, a wall, or a screen.

48. Throw in a gift card for a digital movie from Amazon, or a DVD of one of my favorites. You could really commit to the bit and throw in some egg nog and classic moose mugs. Where’s the Tylenol?!

49. For the new-age hippie on your list (hi!) who likes to start their week by burning sage and telling themselves it’s doing something to the energy in their home, a bundle of sage.

50. No one needs flaming leaves flying onto the carpet. Buy them this gorgeous ash tray to hold underneath their burning bush and then to stub it out. Apparently people still smoke? Tell them it’s a ceramic vessel with healing energy to start and end the journey of their cleansing ritual. I mean, I would buy that. In fact, I might.

51. Play The Woman Card. The perfect stocking stuffer or hostess gift for someone who wants or needs powerful women in their life.

52. I HAVE EXCELLENT NEWS. You can now buy Maille mustard in the U.S., beyond just the regular and honey mustard flavors you can find in the grocery store. If you’ve never had fancy mustard on a steak, you’re missing out. Use for salad dressings, sauces, and to dip your meat and potatoes. My husband and I went to Paris on our honeymoon and one of our favorite souvenirs was a bagful of Maille’s intriguing little mustards. How about a jar of blue cheese and white wine mustard, or my personal favorite, roasted onion, white wine, and wild thyme mustard. YOU CAN EVEN GET MUSTARD IN A CROCK. Once you’ve used all your delicious mustard, you’re left with a flower vase/jar. Looks gorgeous with peonies.

53. This lovely, beautiful book.

54. These classic Santa mugs are on here because I want them.

55. Don’t forget some nice hot chocolate. This Cadbury drinking chocolate is very tasty, and not super common in the US. It also has a Royal Appointment, which I assume is very important to you. If you want to splurge a little, the Williams-Sonoma hot chocolate and marshmallows set is a classic.

56. A pocket knife is a good choice for someone on your list. I used to tease my husband about always carrying one, until I realized how handy it is. From cutting open boxes on Christmas morning to cutting sushi in a restaurant for me when I was still recovering from jaw surgery, that thing has saved my bacon. Just don’t forget to take it out of your pocket before airport security! Classic, affordable, made in USA.

57. How fun is this? I love NY Times crossword puzzles, and these mini holiday crosswords would be great to cozy up with while drinking hot chocolate from a new Santa mug. Throw this in a stocking, or slap a bow on it for a hostess or white elephant gift. I do the mini puzzles on the app, and they take about a minute. Fun and easy.

58. I’m a big fan of the Patagonia Better Sweater. Mine has held up well for a good 7-8 years now. A sweater, a sweatshirt, a light jacket: this is whatever you need it to be. Various colors, in men’s and women’s cuts. There are also vests, 1/4-zips, and hoodies.

59. I’m calling it. Every year, the Gift Guide has a weird item you didn’t know you couldn’t live without. This year, these little thumb scraper tools are it. Scrape labels off, use a little leverage, clean up candle wax, or scrape anything out of a crevice. My aunt and cousin recommended them, and my cousin even uses them to click the button on her daughter’s car seat when her nails are too long. GENIUS. The perfect stocking stuffer.

60. Cornhole! This backyard kit has everything to get started. And for the campers, travelers, tailgaters, and beachgoers on your list, this travel cornhole set is under $40.

61. I regret to inform you that Whistle Pops/Melody Pops are back and the kids in your life will be delighted to find them in their stockings.

62. The One Where Someone On Your List Definitely Wants This.

63. These On-The-Go gamepads for keeping busy on rainy days, long car rides, or while waiting for the Christmas ham to be done. Lots of simple games like hangman, tic-tac-toe, dots & boxes, and cateogories all in one place; there are mini versions too.

64. Consider the oyster. Is there an oyster lover on your list? They can have oysters at home! Start with a shucking kit.

65. And throw in a how-to book. This one offers an intro to oysters by region in North America, teaches you how to shuck them, and pair them with wine and beer. For an oyster lover, adventurous eater, or someone who likes an intriguing new project.

66. Feel free to laugh at me, but spraying this little can of French spring water on my face is one of the most absurdly refreshing things ever. It’s great as a midday pick-me-up, when traveling, or when you’re getting lots of sun. A perfectly indulgent little stocking stuffer. (My husband, catching me in the act one day: “So THAT’S why your face is all wet.”) Stay hydrated, my friends.

67. While you’re spraying stuff on your face, I highly recommend a Tassi to keep your hair out of the way. It’s not tight like a no slip headband, but it’s soft and won’t crease your hair. It’s like a scrunchie for your face. They even have a leopard print one. Someone on your list needs this in their stocking, or maybe in a gift bag with some face masks. I also really like these collagen eye pads.

68. And winning this year’s coveted Cheapest Item On The Gift Guide Prize is my favorite hair clip. As of publishing, it’s $1.47. I use it for adding volume to my curly hair while it dries, or for quickly putting my hair up without leaving a dent in it. It’s the perfect size and I can no longer find them anywhere but Ulta.

69. Speaking of bathroom-adjacent relaxation (?), a kids’ unicorn robe! Several other options at that link, some more colorful, bedazzled, and horrifying than others.

70. I like this more subdued stripey one too. Lots of plaids, patterns, and buffalo checks at the link.

71. Run Fast. Eat Slow. I haven’t run in years but I love this cookbook. It’s full of healthy, delicious recipes and sensible information about food, nutrition, and how to fuel up. I adore the superhero muffins and have made them many times. Perfect for anyone on your list who likes to work out, cook, or eat healthy.

72. Wrap it up with a big bow and this OXO wooden corner spoon and scraper on top. Also an excellent stocking stuffer, because you can never have too many wooden spoons, especially ones that can get into the corners. $6, 1800 reviews, 4.5 stars.

73. Numi makes some of my very favorite teas. They’re sustainable, organic, and Fair Trade Certified. They use quality ingredients (no “natural flavors” that you see in other teas) and are just so delicious. I drink buckets of their Moroccan Mint, especially in the colder months. This tea sampler would make a nice gift for a yogi, host, friend, aunt, neighbor, or any tea lover. This flowering tea set is interesting too.

74. How about one of my favorite pine-scented candles? This is also my husband’s favorite. Slap a bow on it for an unusual hostess gift, or maybe just buy one for yourself. Light it, kick back, and take 5 minutes to close your eyes and breathe in the season.

75. Sassy flamingo ornament!

76. Has someone on your list wanted to make more eco-conscious choices? Get them some tools for zero waste lunches. Start with a stainless steel stackable bento box set.

77. And how chic is this little portable utensil set? Stash it in their stocking and then they can stash it in a bag or purse to cut back on disposable utensils, chopsticks, and straws. Other colors and cases, too.

78. Throw in my favorite reusable glass cup. It has a satisfying weight and there’s something just right about the straw. Like a McDonald’s straw! It’s the perfect size. I’ve given this as a gift a few times and it always gets used. Also good on its own or throw in a gift card for your favorite coffee shop or smoothie place for a coworker, cousin, friend, or someone who just needs a pick-me-up in this bonkers season. Comes in several colors including mint and coral. Under $10!

79. Complete the kit with my favorite cloth napkins. They make every meal feel like a little picnic, and every coworker look at your desk salad and say, “Oh, look at your little picnic!” They also go great with Friday night pizza, or Sunday lasagna with family. Check out all the colors. I’ve been thinking about buying the black and white ones.

80. Need an intro to living more green? Give a Sh*t: Do Good. Live Better. Save the Planet. is here to help. It “guides you through the transition to a kinder, healthier, more conscious, and sustainable life like no book has done before. With a humorous and nonjudgmental tone, savvy eco-friendly lifestyle expert Ashlee Piper walks you through easy-but-impactful shifts anyone can make to live and be better every damn day”. Ashlee is an awesome human being and she really knows her sh*t.

81. Last year I recommended this affordable blanket. This year I recommend this unaffordable blanket, which is one of the best gifts I’ve ever been given. It is something special. It is a splurge. It is insanely soft. I don’t even know how to describe how soft it is. It’s heavy. It’s luxury in a blanket. When I got this, I thought it was a stupid insane gift for about 32 seconds until I realized I want to live in it. It makes a great group gift, a splurge for someone on your list who has everything, gets cold, or enjoys the cozy and finer things in life.

82. They also make baby blankets. Perfect for the newest little sweetie in your life. Pricier than a onesie but lasts much longer.

83. Root, root, root for the home team with these baseball park map glasses.

84. Beautiful geode state ornaments.

85. For dog lovers, the We Rate Dogs page-a-day calendar or the Thoughts of Dog page-a-day calendar. Both are fun and funny and tug at your heartstrings in different ways.

86. And for any pet owner, this keepsake ornament kit is paws-itively perfect.

87. Oh gosh. Do you go to a cookie decorating party or cookie swap every year? Wouldn’t this gingerbread house doormat be the perfect hostess gift?

88. So charmed by this beautifully beaded Eye Heart You ornament. Click through to see the detail.

89. Boggle! I’m really into a classic, simple, fun game under $10 this year. Good for kids, adults, friends, neighbors, coworkers, stocking stuffers, and people you might not know super well but have to shop for anyway. In that vein, Scrabble Slam is a card game twist on the classic, and Sushi Go! comes highly recommended. 1,700 reviews, five stars!

90. Speaking of games, I am tickled by this gamer Claus ornament.

91. Speaking of gamers, this Dungeon and Dragons starter kit is the perfect gift for someone who hasn’t played since high school, someone you just think might like it, or someone who enjoys a game night.

92. Has someone on your list been wanting a smoker? A Kamado Joe is a really good choice for a smoker, grill, and more all in one. Smoke meats and cheeses, roast coffee, do rotisserie chicken, make pizza, grill burgers—just about anything you can think of. It has a small footprint and is perfect for someone who likes projects and tinkering in the kitchen. This is a big ticket item no matter how you cut it, but there are different sizes and different packages with various accessories at different price points. A memorable and useful gift.

93. A personalized Goodnight Little Me book. What’s better than seeing your own name in print, in your very own book? Throw in these sweet polar bears reading ornament.

94. Soft knit pom hat and matching cozy mittens.

95. Classic buckskin leather chopper mitts. Removable inner wool blend mitten, for warm and dry wood chopping, hiking, ice fishing, cold weather camping, sledding, hikes in the snow. Or just feeling like a small Paul Bunyan. Two colors, very well reviewed.

96. How beautiful is this simple, gorgeous piece? I’ve long admired these German candle tower…things. My aunt had one growing up and I looked forward to seeing it at her Christmas party every year. I was in a Christmas shop recently and saw some of this brand. They’re beautiful and I can’t get enough of the curly-cues.

97. For the runner, cyclist, hiker, walker, or other person who spends time outdoors and starts chilly but gets heated, some athletic arm warmers.

98. For those same sportsy folks, stuff their stockings with hydration tablets. My husband the cyclist likes the Gu orange and watermelon tabs best.

99. Did you see that Le Creuset and Star Wars did a collab? There are some truly brilliant pieces, like a Han Solo in carbonite roaster (!), droid mini cocottes, and storm trooper spatula, which would make an awesome stocking stuffer. There are Chewy and Darth ones too. I think this Millennium Falcon trivet would be a fun and subtle touch in the kitchen for the Star Wars fan on your list.

If Star Wars isn’t their jam, Williams-Sonoma has a lot of branded stuff, including Harry Potter spatulas, Mickey Mouse trivets, and more, so go poke around.

100. Tabasco Reserve hot sauce, for the spicy saucy one on your list.

101. If you thought you were getting out of here without at least one royal-adjacent item, you came to the wrong gift guide. Our Rainbow Queen is a tribute to Her Majesty’s sartorial splendor and the power of fashion. Perfect for any royal enthusiast or rainbow queen.

102. Swim goggles! A fun and/or useful stocking stuffer for all the big and little fish on your list. Pool, beach, bathtub? The world is their oyster.

103. I really like Birkenstocks made with this foamy new material. They’re light and comfy, stylish and cool, you can wear them in water, they come in a million colors, and are a lot cheaper than leather Birks (which I also still love!) Good for all genders, all ages. Shop around for the best deal.

104. Speaking of many things in many colors, how about 20 velvet scrunchies for $6? 1,300 reviews, 4.5 stars. perfect if you’re shopping for a VSCO girl or Jason Momoa. This tie one is also very hip.

105. This mini portable wireless Bluetooth speaker has good sound for the size and fits in a cup holder! AND it’s made with sustainable materials. Perfect for camping, tailgating, the beach, car shows, sitting on the patio, sticking in a bike basket, in a canoe, or for a teen or college kid.

106. The brass carpenter’s pen from Best Made. Classic styling for the modern day with more than meets the eye. The all-in-one tool includes ballpoint pen, touchscreen stylus, two screwdriver heads, a level, a ruler, and three different scale functions. This is a great gift for anyone who has a workshop, works with their hands, enjoys efficiency and practicality combined with style, or is otherwise a modern-day Ron Swanson.

107. On the other end of the office supplies spectrum, my friend Kate strongly recommends this mini office supplies kit. Her kids recently got some and have been playing with them nonstop. I don’t know about you, but I would have died over this as a kid. At $6, it’s a perfect stocking stuffer. For some of the adults too, because they are MINI OFFICE SUPPLIES. Two colors.

108. And while we’re here, scissors. Do you have that thing in your house where there are never enough scissors, and no one puts them back in the right place, and you can never find them? Good scissors are $5 or less. First, buy yourself an extra pair to get through the holiday wrapping season. Next, buy a pair for everyone in your house and put them in their stocking. Maybe write their names on them and handcuff them to their wrist.

109. The only subscription box I’ve ever felt was worth it is FabFitFun. It’s quarterly, customizable, and has full-sized products I actually use. It’s given me a chance to discover new makeup, hair care, and skincare, try fun stuff I never need to buy for real, and add some scarves, workout gear, and fun accessories to my closet. I like that I get to choose a few of the items each time and get surprised by others. It works out to about $16 a month, and I never regret spending that money. On a few occasions, products I was about to buy were in the box I received, so I saved money. It is the perfect combo of useful and fun, and it would make a truly awesome gift.

110. One of the recent things I got and loved from FabFitFun is this lotion. Soft, moisturizing, not at ALL greasy. Absorbs super fast and dry to the touch. Never had a lotion like it. Smells fresh and kind of cucumbery.

111. Do you know what every single person on your list, without exception, needs? Sunscreen. Even if it is Very Winter where you live, you need it for your face. I don’t know why I never thought about it in a stocking before! I really like Sun Bum products (there are so many) and I love the Supergoop Unseen Sunscreen. It’s soft and like a primer you can use under makeup. It’s mattifying so if you wear it alone it won’t look super greasy like so many sunscreens can.

112. I’m a big fan of an experience gift. A local membership to a museum, theater, zoo, aquarium, or amusement park can be such a great choice. Families with kids, the person who has it all, or someone hard to shop for? Consider a place they can make their second home. It’s so nice to live near a zoo or park you can pop in and out of. I also love the National Parks America the Beautiful pass for someone living near a national park or who has a trip planned to one. Massages, manicures/pedicures, restaurant gift cards, spa services, and movie tickets are some of my go-to’s as well.

113. Okay, did you know that Nalgene makes more than just water bottles? Because I did not. They make travel containers! Brilliant. I’d love some of these bottles and jars in my stocking on Christmas morning. They even make wide-mouth versions. Great for the frequent travelers, campers, hikers, beachgoers, car trippers, or anyone else on your list who ever has to bring anything anywhere ever. They even make dropper bottles. P.S. While you’re there, check out these silicone travel jar labels. They seem like they’d be so much better than regular labels.

114. While you’re shopping for the frequent flyer on your list, Wrap-a-Nap is an eye mask, neck pillow, and ear muff all in one. I might throw my favorite ear plugs in their stocking anyway, because you can never have too many, especially when you find yourself in a hotel room without adequate sound proofing in the middle of New York City, ask me how I know.

115. Get cozy in style. This soft and chic pashmina is two-toned, comes in a bunch of colors, has great reviews, and is under $20. Great for anyone who needs a layer on a plane! Also for a cousin, sibling, colleague, neighbor, or friend.

116. What We Keep: 150 People Share the One Object that Brings Them Joy, Magic, and Meaning. I am so intrigued by this book, and I think it could be just right for someone on your list.

117. Speaking of books! The readers on your list might need this book light. USB rechargeable, lightweight. 3,700 reviews, 4.5 stars. I have it on good authority that Santa is bringing it to Mrs. Claus this year, because he is sick of Mrs. Claus’ bedside light keeping him up. I bet kids would love it too.

118. For those young readers, Ken Jennings’ Junior Genius series looks cool. You may recall he’s that guy who had the longest and winningest streak on Jeopardy until it was recently broken. These interactive trivia books for 8-10 year olds come in a variety of subjects, including geography, outer space, the human body, dinosaurs, and U.S. Presidents. $6 each.

119. I feel like a teenager on your list wants a giant Reese’s. Target usually has Slice n’ Share Snickers this time of year too. Make sure there are no food allergies (especially peanuts!) but could also be fun for a family gathering, because I feel like gathering around the novelty of these is what it’s all about, but no one actually eats a one-pound candy bar.

120. Bellroy makes a backpack from recycled water bottles. Chic and sleek, classic lines, bunch of colors, various styles and products, and man, this is just super cool to me.

121. Therapy dough! For the person on your list who’s zen or needs to be, this is soft, squishy, and soothing. Made with essential oils, meant to be played with. Stress relief and aromatherapy.

122. Speaking of office supplies, my husband got me this Vietnamese pour over coffee kit for my birthday. It has a little packet of sweetened condensed milk and everything. Perfect for 3 p.m. in the office. Cheaper than the local coffee shop, way better than whatever sludge you’ve been drinking. I shared it with a coworker and she liked it so much she signed up for their subscription program. This is a great stocking stuffer for anyone who needs an afternoon pick-me-up.

123. And for the avocado lovers on your list, this tool to pit, scoop, and slice their beloved for toast, guac, sandwiches, or shoveling directly into their pie hole. Oxo makes great products. 3,600+ reviews, 4.5 stars, under $10, will keep you from ever affording a mortgage.

124. Got a little soccer/football lover on your list? There are a lot of soccer/football kits like this that I would have SWOONED over as a kid. I mean I didn’t play soccer but I was way into an occasion-appropriate outfit. Poke around and find their favorite player or a plain one. Maybe throw in a portable training set with goals or a backpack designed to hold a ball and cleats.

125. A vacuum sealer. Keeps food fresher longer so you can buy all the cheese at Costco and take your time eating it. Reduces food waste, saves space, and saves money over the long run. Marinate meats and store them in the freezer or fridge airtight. Great for the sous vide enthusiast on your list. They can seal the food in the bags and toss them in the water bath knowing nothing will get in or out. This one has 1,400 reviews, 4.5 stars. Don’t forget the bags. You can get them pre cut or on a roll so they can cut them to the size they need.

126. A friend recommended these crystal prism suncatchers recently, and it reminded me that my grandmother had some just like them that I adored as a kid. 500+ reviews, 5 stars, 2 for about $8. A great stocking stuffer. Their cat will love them.

127. Sort of in the same vein, these little stained glass coloring books let you color translucent sheets you can hang in the window. I discovered these when my friends’ 4-year-old was coloring in one and my husband and I were more mesmerized than she was. At just $2, they’d make a great stocking stuffer. Choose from birds, butterflies, flowers, mandalas, unicorns, cats, Christmas, and just about anything else you can think of. Include this awesome box of colored pencils that has 1,700 reviews and 4.5 stars.

128. Which reminds me! Know someone who has been wanting to get into hand lettering or is just crafty and would probably enjoy it? This Hand Lettering 101 book is really well reviewed. I did a lot of research in trying to find this, because I want to learn hand lettering!

129. And these calligraphy pens to go with it. 1,700+ reviews, 4.5 stars.

130. This is pretty specific, but does someone on your list have a shop, studio, garage, bar, or anywhere where they use a lot of paper towels? Did you know you can just…buy an industrial paper towel dispenser for about $20? It comes with two rolls.

131. How cool are these metal mountain ornaments?

132. I'll close with my annual commentary. When thinking of gifts, I love the old adage 'something they want, something they need, something to wear, something to read'. I think 'need' is the only category I haven't truly covered here. Of course you can do your own research, but causes close to my heart include whatever local charity gives to kids who otherwise might not have a Christmas morning (like your local angel/giving tree), Toys for Tots, Feeding America, helping wildlife and protecting wild spaces, your local food bank, and your local blood & plasma bank. Maybe schedule an appointment to donate blood or plasma in January, if you want to give to someone not on your list. If you want to give in someone's name as a gift, you could certainly do that too.

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Thanks for joining me and humoring me. I love putting this together, and I hope you've found some inspiration and had fun too. Wishing you and yours a truly happy, healthy, fun, delicious, and festive holiday season!

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